I run a daycare in Seattle and I never had any concern that my daycare kids are being abused. Recently, I got a 9 month old enrolled by their parents who just moved to the area. The baby seems very skinny, I can see her ribs. She also cries nonstop when either of the parents comes to pick her up, but she rarely cries during the day when she’s with me. I think something might be going on but I don’t know how to figure it out for sure. I know as a daycare provider I am obligated to report suspected child abuse, but I don’t know if what I’m seeing proves abuse. I want to make sure the baby is safe, but also don’t want to get in trouble for a false report. What other signs should I be looking for in and if I call the child abuse hotline, will they tell these parents that it was me who called?

I’m engaged and my fiancé wants me to sign a prenuptial agreement. He says he’ll have his lawyer prepare it and all I need to do is sign. My concern is that I don’t know what I’m possibly giving up. He’s very private about his finances, we don’t have joint accounts, and he doesn’t want to have them even after we marry. He says that as long as he’s taking care of all the bills, it shouldn’t matter what money or property he has coming into the marriage. Can I make him disclose his financial situation before I sign a prenup? I am not only concerned about what I might be losing if we ever did divorce, I’m also concerned about being responsible for any debt that he might have now that I don’t know about.